“Everyone who's truly loved has been deeply hurt before”
Agree
- Vulnerability always risks pain
- Past hurt teaches us boundaries
- Opens heart wider for real love
- Scars prove you tried fully
- Universal human experience
Disagree
- Some find healthy love first try
- Hurt isn't required for growth
- Creates unnecessary trauma bonding
- Perpetuates toxic relationship cycles
- Luck and timing matter most
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